For a long time, mum-of-three Holly could see no way out of her relationship with her partner,. Daniel, who suffered from depression, was an alcoholic and regular drug user and often lashed out at her.
But in 2021, Holly took the brave step to separate from Daniel as she could see his behaviour was not only affecting her, but was starting to have an impact on the children, especially young Isla.
Daniel is so unpredictable and will cause arguments at any opportunity. I have depression because of it and Isla has anger outbursts at home. I wish I had the confidence to deal him.
With the help of our Stanwell Family Centre team and her Outreach Worker, Holly was able to find support and learn new skills. Holly took part in talking therapy, the Freedom Programme (a course designed to help people affected by Domestic Violence), and 123 magic to help her with her parenting and managing Isla’s behaviour.
Holly can see the success she has made – “my children are healthier and doing well at school, I can take care of myself and know how to get help if I need it, I know how to be honest with my kids. I feel more confident, I control my own life, and I have choices. I have a job and my money is my own… I’m even saving up for a holiday!”
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